Neil D Posted August 28, 2007 Posted August 28, 2007 Most adults are considering marriage again, even after thier divorce...What are you doing to become the man/woman/spouse that you need to be in a marriage? Quote Democracy is a device that ensures we shall be governed no better than we deserve. George Bernard Shaw
Moderators Nan Posted August 28, 2007 Moderators Posted August 28, 2007 A lot of older women I meet have no wish at all to become involved in another relationship. And a younger woman to whom I was chatting at the weekend has just come through a relationship where she felt hurt and betrayed, and says she will not even consider another involvement until her children are grown. Just playing devil's advocate Neil!! Quote
Amelia Posted August 28, 2007 Posted August 28, 2007 I think I might be joining the "no more relationships" group. This first go round with the ex has been very hard. I can't imagine doing it again. And I will not share a bank account ever again. And there will be a prenup. I'm not giving up/away the pittance I have in reserve. Quote <p><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="font-weight:bold;"><span style="font-style:italic;">"Do not use harmful words, but only helpful words, the kind that build up and provide what is needed, so that what you say will do good to those who hear you."</span></span> Eph 4:29</span><br><br><img src="http://banners.wunderground.com/weathersticker/gizmotimetemp_both/US/OR/Fairview.gif" alt="Fairview.gif"> Fairview Or</p>
Neil D Posted August 28, 2007 Author Posted August 28, 2007 Ah, you go ahead and try to play 'devils advocate', you married "hypocrite".... ROFL Quote Democracy is a device that ensures we shall be governed no better than we deserve. George Bernard Shaw
Neil D Posted August 28, 2007 Author Posted August 28, 2007 I think I might be joining the "no more relationships" group. This first go round with the ex has been very hard. I can't imagine doing it again. And I will not share a bank account ever again. And there will be a prenup. I'm not giving up/away the pittance I have in reserve. It is hard to trust again...There is no guarentees for the future. Some I have talked to, advocate courting before dating as a 'guarentee' that God will guide you into the perfect mate. My thoughts regarding any sort of dating/courting that is that you have to be very honest with yourself and careful in choosing a person with character. Be patient with yourself, Amelia. and choose to be who you truely are...not who someone else wants you to be... Quote Democracy is a device that ensures we shall be governed no better than we deserve. George Bernard Shaw
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