cricket Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 One of the best books I've ever read on the subject of "slang" is "Expletive Deleted". You wouldn't believe some of the common, everyday words that even the most righteous of us use--that should be considered slang. Certainly, there could be a list of objectionable terms to include that MOST could agree upon.
Woody Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 Oh NO !! I thought that my speech was pure. But I suppose that if I read that book I might discover I am not so pure after all. No. I don't think I want to read that book. Let me live in my fantasy. May we be one so that the world may be won. Christian from the cradle to the grave I believe in Hematology.
Woody Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 One of the best books I've ever read on the subject of "slang" is "Expletive Deleted". You wouldn't believe some of the common, everyday words that even the most righteous of us use--that should be considered slang. Certainly, there could be a list of objectionable terms to include that MOST could agree upon. I used to work in the Rehabilitation Department of a Hospital. For 17 years I worked with stroke patients. One of them was a nun. Her family said she was as pure as the driven snow. But after the stroke ... she used words that would shock the most rough of individuals. She had no control over her words. It was not her fault. It is just interesting how the brain works. I don't know if the words were repressed over the years of being so kind ?? or what ? These words just came out automatically without a reason. She would be walking around and the words were just flowing. May we be one so that the world may be won. Christian from the cradle to the grave I believe in Hematology.
Lil Star Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 Just tagging on and not in response to anyone's comment. When we say stop rehashing old issues, is that for everyone? If not can we have a list who can? When we say do not make it personal, who does that mean? If someone goes after another when nothing has been said either to or about them, can we expect to have them stopped cold on the forum as was recently done? Can all or just a few allowed to do this?
Lil Star Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 We could always refer people to Ellen White. She has a few "clarifying" rules. I make a habit of doing this and thus I am not so popular.
Neil D Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 I once quoted Ellen White here on the forum and some person complained to my employor over it because they did not like what I quoted. LOL Which brings me to another rule. Keeping C/A here safe...that means, anyone who contacts an employer due to a member's writing here, and gets the member fired, that whistle blower/tattletale is banned for life of the board once it is confirmed by administrative investigation. I don't want some pastor getting fired for espousing/exploring views. I want C/A a place to grow as well...and that means exploring and sometimes espousing views not held by all. I don't mind admitting a tattle tail to C/A, provided s/he is place on one year probation automatically. But you do it to one of our members, you are out of here... Democracy is a device that ensures we shall be governed no better than we deserve. George Bernard Shaw
Woody Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 I guess we could define what we mean by wanting CA to be a "safe" place. May we be one so that the world may be won. Christian from the cradle to the grave I believe in Hematology.
Neil D Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 As far as rules ... I would like to propose that No Slang be allowed. It is offensive to many and is just not necessary. Whatcho talkin' 'bout, boy? Ya'll wanta make some of us creative types speakin' plain? Democracy is a device that ensures we shall be governed no better than we deserve. George Bernard Shaw
bonnie Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 Just tagging on. I think there is something in scripture about "Be sure your sins will find you out. Yup even on the internet. Perhaps Stan is right, those that might object strongest to speaking to an employer hoping for negative consequences might have been guilty themselves. Everything you do is based on the choices you make. It's not your parents, your past relationships, your job, the economy, the weather, an argument, or your age that is to blame. You and only you are responsible for every decision and choice you make, period ... ... Wish more people would realize this. Quotes by Susan Gottesman
Woody Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 OK. You asked. This Redwood Snippet is the reason .... Quote: "The tongue that utters perverse things, common things, slang phrases , that tongue needs to be treated with the hot coals of juniper .--MS 17, 1895. {2MCP 577.3} OUCH. I don't wouldn't want to wish that on anyone. May we be one so that the world may be won. Christian from the cradle to the grave I believe in Hematology.
Woody Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 Originally Posted By: Redwood We could always refer people to Ellen White. She has a few "clarifying" rules. I make a habit of doing this and thus I am not so popular. BUMP May we be one so that the world may be won. Christian from the cradle to the grave I believe in Hematology.
Amelia Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 I could never understand why a person would go so far as to call a persons employer over something done here on CA. It's beyond outragious. Where do they get off? What makes them think they are so rightious? My rule would be: if a member contacted another members employer, pastor or family member (must have proof) whatever their intent; that member would be emmediately banned. And I would urge them to get as much info as they could and take out a restraining order against them. <p><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="font-weight:bold;"><span style="font-style:italic;">"Do not use harmful words, but only helpful words, the kind that build up and provide what is needed, so that what you say will do good to those who hear you."</span></span> Eph 4:29</span><br><br><img src="http://banners.wunderground.com/weathersticker/gizmotimetemp_both/US/OR/Fairview.gif" alt="Fairview.gif"> Fairview Or</p>
Woody Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 You are right Amelia. That person would certainly lack credibility in my eyes. May we be one so that the world may be won. Christian from the cradle to the grave I believe in Hematology.
bonnie Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 I could never understand why a person would go so far as to call a persons employer over something done here on CA. It's beyond outragious. Where do they get off? What makes them think they are so rightious? My rule would be: if a member contacted another members employer, pastor or family member (must have proof) whatever their intent; that member would be emmediately banned. And I would urge them to get as much info as they could and take out a restraining order against them. As this seems to be a long past issue that now needs to be addressed again and again and you have rendered judgement perhaps I will be allowed to answer. First take into account that at times those that bring it up again and again have done same. You certainly would not wish to bann them Secondly, you are without a clue as to any circumstances leading up to and finally carrying thru. If I am wrong it would be helpful for you to state what you know of why such an act would occur. Restraining order, nah, not possible. All actions were taken with full legal advise . Also when the act that has you so incensed was done it was not with a surprise that notification was given that others had done same. As soon as it was complained about and acknowledged several did acknowledge same action with no results When an employer is already aware of actions,and does not act themselves, they assume certain liabilities. In time then this gives them a certain incentive to act. I will also assume that you are in full possession of the knowledge of motive as I have seen you state many times not to be so quick to judge the motive of others. In fact quite a frequent reoccurring theme here by many. Your knowledge of motives places you in a position of being able to judge the motives of another apparently Everything you do is based on the choices you make. It's not your parents, your past relationships, your job, the economy, the weather, an argument, or your age that is to blame. You and only you are responsible for every decision and choice you make, period ... ... Wish more people would realize this. Quotes by Susan Gottesman
bonnie Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 Also Amelia, before you become so incensed it might be helpful to ask of all those doing so much handwringing. Are you without sin in this area? If so cast the first stone And always be aware that the true answer to that can come from the most unexpected places Everything you do is based on the choices you make. It's not your parents, your past relationships, your job, the economy, the weather, an argument, or your age that is to blame. You and only you are responsible for every decision and choice you make, period ... ... Wish more people would realize this. Quotes by Susan Gottesman
Amelia Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 Bonnie, you seem to think my comment was aimed at you. It was not. It was not aimed at anyone. It was just a general comment about an action that a member said had happened and my opinion of a "rule" to counter the action. <p><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="font-weight:bold;"><span style="font-style:italic;">"Do not use harmful words, but only helpful words, the kind that build up and provide what is needed, so that what you say will do good to those who hear you."</span></span> Eph 4:29</span><br><br><img src="http://banners.wunderground.com/weathersticker/gizmotimetemp_both/US/OR/Fairview.gif" alt="Fairview.gif"> Fairview Or</p>
Amelia Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 Bonnie, IMHO you sould take that persecution complex to the doctor and have it looked at. <p><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="font-weight:bold;"><span style="font-style:italic;">"Do not use harmful words, but only helpful words, the kind that build up and provide what is needed, so that what you say will do good to those who hear you."</span></span> Eph 4:29</span><br><br><img src="http://banners.wunderground.com/weathersticker/gizmotimetemp_both/US/OR/Fairview.gif" alt="Fairview.gif"> Fairview Or</p>
bonnie Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 You are right Amelia. That person would certainly lack credibility in my eyes. Be careful of that redwood, the wrath may descend on those you would least want it to. certainly should not be rushing to an opinion or judgement with out all facts at your disposal Everything you do is based on the choices you make. It's not your parents, your past relationships, your job, the economy, the weather, an argument, or your age that is to blame. You and only you are responsible for every decision and choice you make, period ... ... Wish more people would realize this. Quotes by Susan Gottesman
bonnie Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 Of course, I should have seen that, Thank you Something that was provided for me after the past week for my informational purposes. maybe help with C/A and them trying to figure out rules http://www.carter-ruck.com/FAQs/Libel%20and%20Slander%20Cases.html For you amelia http://www.website-law.co.uk/resources/website-libel.html Everything you do is based on the choices you make. It's not your parents, your past relationships, your job, the economy, the weather, an argument, or your age that is to blame. You and only you are responsible for every decision and choice you make, period ... ... Wish more people would realize this. Quotes by Susan Gottesman
Guest Artiste Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 Someone has not eaten their toad this morning.
bonnie Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 Don't eat toads, so you are correct. I prefer to know and reject that which is not good for me. Everything you do is based on the choices you make. It's not your parents, your past relationships, your job, the economy, the weather, an argument, or your age that is to blame. You and only you are responsible for every decision and choice you make, period ... ... Wish more people would realize this. Quotes by Susan Gottesman
Stan Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 Someone has not eaten their toad this morning. Some days you just never know what will be posted.. If you receive benefit to being here please help out with expenses. https://www.paypal.me/clubadventist Administrator of a few websites like https://adventistdating.com
Moderators lazarus Posted January 27, 2008 Moderators Posted January 27, 2008 Quote: some days you just never know what will be posted.. Great spirits have always found violent opposition from mediocrities. The latter cannot understand it when a man does not thoughtlessly submit to hereditary prejudices but honestly and courageously uses his intelligence. Einstein
olger Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 Originally Posted By: Redwood We could always refer people to Ellen White. She has a few "clarifying" rules. I make a habit of doing this and thus I am not so popular. Not everyone cares for Ellen White. I once quoted Ellen White here on the forum and some person complained to my employor over it because they did not like what I quoted. LOL It might be time to let this old story go. I vote for it. "Please don't feed the drama queens.."
Woody Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 The last I heard ... we were suppose to rehash old things. So, i am just really confused. Can anyone help my confusion? When is it time to re-hash and when is it not time to re-hash? Can we have a hash committee Stan? May we be one so that the world may be won. Christian from the cradle to the grave I believe in Hematology.
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