Stan Posted May 5, 2008 Posted May 5, 2008 This just in.. Quote: Hi Stan, A short note. She is in the hospital, was yesterday morning. Her father is with her, and Chris. She is on comfort measures only. She could go at any time. Betty Quote If you receive benefit to being here please help out with expenses. https://www.paypal.me/clubadventist Administrator of a few websites like https://adventistdating.com
LifeHiscost Posted May 5, 2008 Posted May 5, 2008 This just in.. Quote: Hi Stan, A short note. She is in the hospital, was yesterday morning. Her father is with her, and Chris. She is on comfort measures only. She could go at any time. Betty "Good people pass away; the godly often die before their time. But no one seems to care or wonder why. No one seems to understand that God is protecting them from the evil to come. For those who follow godly paths will rest in peace when they die. " Isaiah 57:1,2 NLT Even so, come quickly, Lord Jesus. Quote Lift Jesus up!!
Moderators Nan Posted May 5, 2008 Moderators Posted May 5, 2008 Our dear Denise. She will be past receiving messages from anyone - I pray her remaining time is as peaceful and comfortable as possible, and look forward to meeting her when she is well and whole again. Quote
Taylor Posted May 5, 2008 Posted May 5, 2008 THis makes me feel so sad! Praying for her and her family! Quote
Administrators Gail Posted May 5, 2008 Administrators Posted May 5, 2008 Our dear, sweet Denise. I'm still praying for her everyday. Quote Isaiah 32:17 And the work of righteousness shall be peace; and the effect of righteousness quietness and assurance for ever.
Liz Posted May 5, 2008 Posted May 5, 2008 I don't know what to say....I got to know her in the chat room when I first came here.....Praying for her and her family....Praying for all still....am very sad. Quote For what will a man be profited, if he gains the whole world, and forfeits his soul? Mat. 16:26Please, support the JDRF and help find a cure for Type 1 Diabetes. Please, support the March of Dimes.
Administrators Gail Posted May 5, 2008 Administrators Posted May 5, 2008 Well, watching that broke my heart even more... I miss her... Quote Isaiah 32:17 And the work of righteousness shall be peace; and the effect of righteousness quietness and assurance for ever.
Members rudywoofs (Pam) Posted May 5, 2008 Members Posted May 5, 2008 I just spoke with Chris, Denise's husband. He and Denise's father are keeping watch over Denise. They have discontinued food/water, and she is only on O2 with a nasal cannula and IV for morphine/Ativan for comfort only, as Betty said. She does not respond to anyone. Chris held the phone down to where I could hear Denise's breathing....he had said the MD's told him there was a bit of fluid built up, but one can definitely hear it even without a stethoscope. He had been told it would only be a couple days, and she's lasted nearly a week. The last thing she said was when she was in ICU, and said, "Help me." Chris *lost it* a couple times talking on the phone to me. He said he wished she would have gone sooner if he'd known she'd have to go through all this. I told him I understood, and that the forum was praying for all of them - for especially for him and the immediate family. He said he would call one of us when the time came. Quote Pam Meddle Not In the Affairs of Dragons; for You Are Crunchy and Taste Good with Ketchup. If we all sang the same note in the choir, there'd never be any harmony. Funny, isn't it, how we accept Grace for ourselves and demand justice for others?
Administrators Gail Posted May 5, 2008 Administrators Posted May 5, 2008 It brings back memories of my mother. Once the water is discontinued it's not long for the kidneys to break down. *cry* Quote Isaiah 32:17 And the work of righteousness shall be peace; and the effect of righteousness quietness and assurance for ever.
Administrators Gail Posted May 5, 2008 Administrators Posted May 5, 2008 I sure appreciate the updates, Pam. Bless your heart! Quote Isaiah 32:17 And the work of righteousness shall be peace; and the effect of righteousness quietness and assurance for ever.
Liz Posted May 6, 2008 Posted May 6, 2008 I appreciate the updates too, even though they are heart-wrenching. Quote For what will a man be profited, if he gains the whole world, and forfeits his soul? Mat. 16:26Please, support the JDRF and help find a cure for Type 1 Diabetes. Please, support the March of Dimes.
Dr. Shane Posted May 6, 2008 Posted May 6, 2008 Even so, come Lord Jesus. My sister passed from us the same way. It is a terribly hard time for the family. We need to send flowers, cards and thoughts. Quote Pastoral Family Counselor... Find me at www.PostumCafe.com Author of Peculiar Christianity
Moderators LynnDel Posted May 6, 2008 Moderators Posted May 6, 2008 Denise is one of the sweetest people I've met. I have missed her presence here very much. Quote LD
LifeHiscost Posted May 6, 2008 Posted May 6, 2008 Thank you, Cricket. I literally wept, even though not having known Denise. Though the hope of the Sons and daughters of God find sweet release in the sleep of death, we that remain still suffer the loss in recognition that it was the enemy of souls that initialized the experience when there was no hope. "Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I fear no evil, for You are with me;" Psalms 23:4 NASB Quote Lift Jesus up!!
Moderators Denise Posted May 7, 2008 Moderators Posted May 7, 2008 I haven't been online for a few days, and this hurt me when I read this.....I miss Denise in the chat room, we had some nice conversations there....We would call each other Twin, since we had the same name. I knew she wasn't doing well, but didn't know how bad her condition has gotten until I read this. We will pray for Chris and the immediate family....and will be looking forward in meeting Denise in the new earth, where we can chat anytime and for long hours without sickness or death. Cricket, I just watched the video...brought tears to my eyes...that was so beautiful..thanks for posting that. Quote Be Kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another... Monticello Georgia
Stan Posted May 7, 2008 Author Posted May 7, 2008 any update from anyone? Quote If you receive benefit to being here please help out with expenses. https://www.paypal.me/clubadventist Administrator of a few websites like https://adventistdating.com
Amelia Posted May 7, 2008 Posted May 7, 2008 I just got home to read this and am now very upset. I am a very selfish person. I don't want my friends leave me. Denise and I used to have such wonderful, funny and happy times watching TV together.(we are both on the west coast) At times when I would get home early from work or have and evening in she and I would get into the chat room and tune into the same TV show. Usually it was Dancing With The Stars, Americas Funniest Home Videos or what ever caught her fancy at the time. It was some of the best times I've ever had with Denise. She would also talk to me about her worries for others on CA and what she could do for them. That right there is the blessing God created. Her name is Denise and she was ALWAYS thinking about someone else. Quote: "Good people pass away;the godly often die before their time. But no one seems to care or wonder why. No one seems to understand that God is protecting them from the evil to come. For those who follow godly paths will rest in peace when they die. " Isaiah 57:1,2 NLT Thank you LHC for posting this verse Quote <p><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="font-weight:bold;"><span style="font-style:italic;">"Do not use harmful words, but only helpful words, the kind that build up and provide what is needed, so that what you say will do good to those who hear you."</span></span> Eph 4:29</span><br><br><img src="http://banners.wunderground.com/weathersticker/gizmotimetemp_both/US/OR/Fairview.gif" alt="Fairview.gif"> Fairview Or</p>
Stan Posted May 7, 2008 Author Posted May 7, 2008 It would take a miracle at this point... nothing less... Quote If you receive benefit to being here please help out with expenses. https://www.paypal.me/clubadventist Administrator of a few websites like https://adventistdating.com
Moderators Denise Posted May 7, 2008 Moderators Posted May 7, 2008 I just wanted to relay a message from another forum....(thethreeam) I told them about Denise, and asked for prayer for her family, and this is what the owner of the forum wanted to relay: Quote: Denise I am heartbroken. I will pray as I know all the members here will do. I know when I was told of my mom's death this was so hard. I am so sorry for the family. I also know that God will see them through. Tell them I/we are praying for them. A lot of people are praying out there for Denise, as well as our church family and our family during worship time. Quote Be Kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another... Monticello Georgia
Members phkrause Posted May 8, 2008 Members Posted May 8, 2008 Praise the Lord. pkrause Quote phkrause When the righteous are in authority, the people rejoice; But when a wicked man rules, the people groan. Proverbs 29;2
Moderators Nan Posted May 9, 2008 Moderators Posted May 9, 2008 I have been away too - the raw memories of watching my mother dying and wondering if each day would be her last - and Denise is young and had so much to live for. As someone else said and we all believe Even so. come, Lord Jesus. My prayers too for Chris and the family. Quote
Neil D Posted May 9, 2008 Posted May 9, 2008 I have lots to say, but it would not do....they would just get mixed up in my tears... Quote Democracy is a device that ensures we shall be governed no better than we deserve. George Bernard Shaw
Stan Posted May 9, 2008 Author Posted May 9, 2008 I just hope she is not suffering still, and that we just have not been notified. Quote If you receive benefit to being here please help out with expenses. https://www.paypal.me/clubadventist Administrator of a few websites like https://adventistdating.com
Beryl Posted May 9, 2008 Posted May 9, 2008 I have been away from the forum for a bit, and this news is quite a shock. The waiting and watching time is just so hard for the family. May God bless and comfort them. Beryl Quote "Grace is God doing for us, in us and through us that which He requires of us but which is impossible for us to do in or for ourselves." But He said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." 2 Cor. 12:9.
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