My child is a teenage rock star

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From the Monitor, McAllen, Texas, USA

http://www.themonitor.com/entertainment/parents-26531-star-rock.html

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Fame, fortune and hit singles --- they're a fantasy for millions of people. Breaking into the music business is a difficult task for anyone, but try doing it when you're 15 or younger. At that age, gigging at a bar, signing a contract or hiring musicians is hardly feasible without Mom or Dad there to supervise or sign on the dotted line.

But what if your parents were less than supportive? What if they not only refused to attend a show but threatened to kick you out of the house if you continue playing in a band?

Some would say trying to achieve rock star status is a pipe dream, but still, the dreamers persevere with or without their parents' approval....

>>> The Adamantly-Against-Rocking Parents

After eight years of piano lessons, Neal Somoso, 21, naturally wanted to play keyboards in a band. But that was the last thing his parents wanted.

The Somosos are devout Seventh Day Adventists, adhering to the traditions and practices of their religion. And playing in a rock band is not something they approve. Especially when that rock band (Big League) often performs on their Sabbath.

"It is considered breaking the Sabbath, which is breaking one of the Commandments of God," said Andrew Gradzikiewicz, Pastor of the Seventh Day Adventist Church in Pharr. "If there is proof of that, it's reason to be dropped as a member of the church."

The Sabbath falls on Saturday for Seventh-day Adventists, which means Friday night is usually devoted to preparing for the holy day and refraining from secular activities, such as concerts. Also, Neal's parents strongly disapprove of the drug and alcohol abuse that is typically associated with being a rock star, even locally.

"I base my decisions on what I think is right or wrong," said Neal. "And deep down, I think some of the things I do are wrong."

He tried playing in his church, but it wasn't what he expected and didn't find the experience fulfilling.

Neal joined local rock group Big League in January of last year and intends on maintaining his role in the band as long as possible. He does have plans to attend graduate school next year to complete his education in physical therapy.

"I made a commitment, and I need to follow through," he said.

Neither of Neal's parents chose to comment on their son's chosen lifestyle.

They haven't gone so far as to disown their son, but they will never approve of his choice to play in a rock band. Neal said they often threaten him, citing the old "you live under our roof, you live under our rules" adage. Neal is confident they'll never go through with their threats, though.

It's likely just a phase for Neal. He said he initially joined the band because he wanted to hang with his friends. Now he loves being on stage and he loves performing. It won't last forever, though.

"I think if it had anything to do with the music, I'd have been playing the recitals and continued (piano) lessons," said Neal.