bonnie Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 Dad moves daughter's belongings to driveway to teach a lesson Apr 2nd 2014 12:28PM 1601418 Do you know of someone who could use a little "push" to get their room tidied up? Well, "Good Morning America" tells us about a dad in Georgia who might have found a successful method. 'He moved everything out of her bedroom into the driveway. Even her bed!' Craig Schlichenmeyer is the girl's dad and the mastermind behind this strategy. He knows a thing or two about completing commands. 'This is a soldier from Fort Hood and he warned her, clean up your room or you're gonna be treated like a soldier.' Schlichenmeyer's daughter Haley was at school during her room's relocation, so he labeled her "new room" with a sign. 'He posted this sign in front of everything explaining what he had done. It says, Haley's room has been moved to the driveway. Clean it up next time!' He told WSAV he tried this tactic after his daughter "wouldn't listen." He says Haley was initially upset, but it worked out for both of them in the end. Although this lesson might seem more extreme than other routes he could've taken, Schlichenmeyer tells WTOL the reasoning behind his actions. 'My intention was just to surprise her a little bit and let her know that we were serious about taking ownership.' WTOL reports Schlichenmeyer speaks very highly of Haley's character. 'The father says that his daughter is a wonderful girl and great student.' Haley is an honor roll student, in fact. WJXT tells us they're now in the process of painting her room--her real room, that is--in hopes of inspiring her to keep it neat. Quote Everything you do is based on the choices you make. It's not your parents, your past relationships, your job, the economy, the weather, an argument, or your age that is to blame. You and only you are responsible for every decision and choice you make, period ... ... Wish more people would realize this. Quotes by Susan Gottesman
Moderators Gerr Posted April 5, 2014 Moderators Posted April 5, 2014 I wonder when they started trying to train her to keep her room neat? Quote
bonnie Posted April 5, 2014 Author Posted April 5, 2014 I wonder when they started trying to train her to keep her room neat? Teenagers are notorious for the condition of their bedrooms. From the article it states she refused to listen. Bet she will now Quote Everything you do is based on the choices you make. It's not your parents, your past relationships, your job, the economy, the weather, an argument, or your age that is to blame. You and only you are responsible for every decision and choice you make, period ... ... Wish more people would realize this. Quotes by Susan Gottesman
Guest Posted April 5, 2014 Posted April 5, 2014 Why couldn't he have just cleaned the room for her? It seems the only fair thing to do. She's only a teenager. Quote
Members rudywoofs (Pam) Posted April 5, 2014 Members Posted April 5, 2014 my folks never ordered me to clean up my room when I was a teenager. It was only required that I maintain a clear trail from the door to the window.... for safety reasons. Quote Pam Meddle Not In the Affairs of Dragons; for You Are Crunchy and Taste Good with Ketchup. If we all sang the same note in the choir, there'd never be any harmony. Funny, isn't it, how we accept Grace for ourselves and demand justice for others?
Guest Posted April 5, 2014 Posted April 5, 2014 I was never forced either. But now I wish I would have been. My house is a mess. Quote
bonnie Posted April 5, 2014 Author Posted April 5, 2014 my folks never ordered me to clean up my room when I was a teenager. It was only required that I maintain a clear trail from the door to the window.... for safety reasons. Quote Everything you do is based on the choices you make. It's not your parents, your past relationships, your job, the economy, the weather, an argument, or your age that is to blame. You and only you are responsible for every decision and choice you make, period ... ... Wish more people would realize this. Quotes by Susan Gottesman
Members phkrause Posted April 5, 2014 Members Posted April 5, 2014 Dad moves daughter's belongings to driveway to teach a lesson I wonder if she learned from that? Quote phkrause When the righteous are in authority, the people rejoice; But when a wicked man rules, the people groan. Proverbs 29;2
Members phkrause Posted April 5, 2014 Members Posted April 5, 2014 my folks never ordered me to clean up my room when I was a teenager. It was only required that I maintain a clear trail from the door to the window.... for safety reasons. I wasn't either, but was expected to. I didn't do that great of a job, if I remember correctly. :) Quote phkrause When the righteous are in authority, the people rejoice; But when a wicked man rules, the people groan. Proverbs 29;2
Guest Posted April 5, 2014 Posted April 5, 2014 The fact is this girl was told what her father expected and she decided to do what she wanted. That is the point exactly. Quote
bonnie Posted April 5, 2014 Author Posted April 5, 2014 I wonder if she learned from that? Quote Everything you do is based on the choices you make. It's not your parents, your past relationships, your job, the economy, the weather, an argument, or your age that is to blame. You and only you are responsible for every decision and choice you make, period ... ... Wish more people would realize this. Quotes by Susan Gottesman
Members rudywoofs (Pam) Posted April 5, 2014 Members Posted April 5, 2014 unless there was a specific time stated to do something such as cleaning the room, it's open-ended, and kids usually pick up on something like that... I don't think there's anyone quibbling that children should not obey their parents. Quote Pam Meddle Not In the Affairs of Dragons; for You Are Crunchy and Taste Good with Ketchup. If we all sang the same note in the choir, there'd never be any harmony. Funny, isn't it, how we accept Grace for ourselves and demand justice for others?
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