Stan Posted November 30, 2005 Posted November 30, 2005 Do you find that as people get older they are more tolerant of others or less? Quote If you receive benefit to being here please help out with expenses. https://www.paypal.me/clubadventist Administrator of a few websites like https://adventistdating.com
Moderators Bravus Posted November 30, 2005 Moderators Posted November 30, 2005 I do see some around me becoming less tolerant as they age. I understand this as a kind of 'elder syndrome': "I have all this life experience, sonny, and you're still wet behind the ears, so how dare you question me?" I find myself becoming more tolerant as I age, because I make more and more mistakes and recognise how fallible I am, what a sinner, and in no position to judge anyone. I don't see this as any particular credit to me, except possibly for being willing to look at myself unvarnished... and I know I'm by no means the only one. Edit: And I'm an old lefty, so I find it much easier to tolerate the poor than the rich, so it's my challenge to learn how to be tolerant towards *everyone*. Edit2: And what of those for whom 'tolerance' is a dirty word? Quote Truth is important
Clio Posted December 1, 2005 Posted December 1, 2005 I chose makes no difference because I don't see tolerance as a function of aging. I see tolerance as an outward manifestation of a heart of compassion, as our Saviour had. No matter when in one's life one comes to have that heart, tolerance and acceptance and a meeting of others needs begin to manifest in the life as fruit of the Spirit. Clio Quote A heart where He alone has first place.
Parade Orange Posted December 1, 2005 Posted December 1, 2005 I hate that word. T O L E R A N C E: to put up with to LET exist to not to punish for existing God commands to not tolerate but to Love! To hold dear to your heart. To cherish. To die for!!!!! Quote All progress in the Spiritual Life is knowing and Loving GOD"there is non upon earth that I desire besides YOU" PS 73:25That perspective changes EVERYTHING-suffering and adversity are the means that makes us hungry for GOD. Disapointments will wean us away wordly occupations. Even sin(when repented of) becomes a mechanism to push us closer to HIM as we experience His Love and Forgiveness.
Susie Posted December 1, 2005 Posted December 1, 2005 Hey, we had better be careful--We may be old ourselves someday---whatever that means. We are as old as we feel???? I think that tolerance should have been listed as a fruit of the spirit --And I am not as young as you may think I am.---Tolerance always comes with love. Just don't get tolerance mixed up with wisdom. Ask the Silver Circle. I recently saw a little girl carrying a suitcase--It was stamped on the side, "IF ALL ELSE FAILS, ASK GRANDMA." Quote
Dr. Shane Posted December 1, 2005 Posted December 1, 2005 In our sinful condition we often tolerate things we shouldn't and don't tolerate things we should. Quote Pastoral Family Counselor... Find me at www.PostumCafe.com Author of Peculiar Christianity
Parade Orange Posted December 1, 2005 Posted December 1, 2005 amen Quote All progress in the Spiritual Life is knowing and Loving GOD"there is non upon earth that I desire besides YOU" PS 73:25That perspective changes EVERYTHING-suffering and adversity are the means that makes us hungry for GOD. Disapointments will wean us away wordly occupations. Even sin(when repented of) becomes a mechanism to push us closer to HIM as we experience His Love and Forgiveness.
Derrell M Posted December 1, 2005 Posted December 1, 2005 The pharisees lived by the letter of the law, but Jesus so often chose to tolerate the company of sinners instead of hanging with them. When a town turned their collective back on Jesus, the diciples experience righteous wrath and wanted to call fire down on that town, but Jesus was tolerant. Looking through the life of Christ, I see amazing tolerance. Quote
Dr. Shane Posted December 1, 2005 Posted December 1, 2005 Yet Jesus didn't tolerate the Phariseas robbing the widows or the vendors in the temple. He didn't tolerate the lies of Ananias and Sapphira much either. Which teaches us there are some things we ought to tolerate and others things we ought not. Quote Pastoral Family Counselor... Find me at www.PostumCafe.com Author of Peculiar Christianity
jasd Posted December 1, 2005 Posted December 1, 2005 QR frame: We ought to be more selectively intolerant as we age Quote
Moderators Bravus Posted December 1, 2005 Moderators Posted December 1, 2005 Good call. <img src="/ubbtreads/images/graemlins/thumbsup.gif" alt="" /> Quote Truth is important
Derrell M Posted December 1, 2005 Posted December 1, 2005 Quote: We ought to be more selectively intolerant as we age LOL!!! As I am aging, and must therefor be more selective in my intolerance, I will not tolerate intolerance... it is intolerable! Furthermore, those who are intolerant will not be tolerated either, as their arrogant intolerance is also intolerable. Tolerate that, intolerant intolerables! Quote
Taylor Posted December 1, 2005 Posted December 1, 2005 Quote: Friend said: Quote: We ought to be more selectively intolerant as we age LOL!!! As I am aging, and must therefor be more selective in my intolerance, I will not tolerate intolerance... it is intolerable! Furthermore, those who are intolerant will not be tolerated either, as their arrogant intolerance is also intolerable. Tolerate that, intolerant intolerables! \ ROFL! Quote
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