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Why Do We Murder the Beautiful Friendships of Boys?


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And it came to pass, when he had made an end of speaking unto Saul, that the
soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his
own soul. - 1 Samuel 18:1

This story is a fascinating story of the relationship of David and Jonathon, but
unfortunately some try to subsume the story into their own agendas. In fact, some
situations that are innocent in their time get "revised" today and other
behaviors ascribed to an event of the past.

The relationship of David and Jonathan uses an interesting term "knit" to
describe the closeness of their relationship. Today, researchers are beginning
to look at the lives of boys and the following fascinating piece was written.

https://medium.com/@remakingmanhood/why-do-we-murder-the-beautiful-friendships-of-boys-3ad722942755

I do take one exception to the article. It is suggested that if homophobia were
to cease and acceptance of same sex marriage were to occur, then everything
would be peachy nice. I disagree. If no one engaged in the practices then boys
would be freer to have their friendships last much longer.

I frequently very much miss the friends I had as a child and teenager very much.
And I suspect many others feel the same way. Today, many men have no real
friends and suicide in men over fifty is three times that of women over fifty.
Having a single relationship, such as a wife, did not change the rates, only
broader social supports was said to make a difference.

This is a relevant topic to the church as it is generally acknowledged that
there is a lower percentage of men in the church compared to women, but there is
little concern about the men. Compare the resources being spent on women's
ministries and all the money being spent trying to drum up support for women's
ordination and you may come to the conclusion that there is a problem.
 

                          >>>Texts in blue type are quotes<<<

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    And therefore as a stranger give it welcome.
    There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio,
    Than are dreamt of in your philosophy.

       --Shakespeare from Hamlet

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Bill Liversidge Seminars

The Emergent Church and the Invasion of Spiritualism

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The link doesn't go anywhere!!

phkrause

When the righteous are in authority, the people rejoice; But when a wicked man rules, the people groan. Proverbs 29;2
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There is a bit of letters/numbers at the end of the link that needs to be included.

https://medium.com/@remakingmanhood/why-do-we-murder-the-beautiful-friendships-of-boys-3ad722942755

                          >>>Texts in blue type are quotes<<<

*****************************************************************************

    And therefore as a stranger give it welcome.
    There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio,
    Than are dreamt of in your philosophy.

       --Shakespeare from Hamlet

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Bill Liversidge Seminars

The Emergent Church and the Invasion of Spiritualism

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