Speaking Hope In Cancer

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Before losing battle with cancer, this 27-year-old woman penned a heartbreaking, eye-opening letter

[Yahoo Lifestyle]

Alex Eriksen

Yahoo LifestyleJanuary 6, 2018

While battling cancer, Holly Butcher wrote a message to help remind us to be grateful and appreciate life. After she passed away, her message was shared widely on social media.

“That’s the thing about life, it is fragile, precious, unpredictable and each day is a gift, not a given right,” Holly Butcher wrote in an emotional post on Facebook.

Butcher, 27, lost her battle with cancer this week. Her words are drawing attention on social media, garnering more than 8,000 shares, 11,000 likes, and 2,000 comments. That extends to all walks of life, says Butcher, whether it be how much money you have in the bank or what kind of work you do. “I hear people complaining about how terrible work is or about how hard it is to exercise — Be grateful you are physically able to,” she wrote. “Work and exercise may seem like such trivial things … until your body doesn’t allow you to do either of them.”

Butcher, from Brisbane, Australia, covers a range of life topics in her letter, including coming to grips with her mortality. She talks about wanting to start a family, grow old, and enjoy life. “I want that so bad it hurts,” she writes.

   * Get up early sometimes and listen to the birds while you watch the beautiful colours the sun makes as it rises.

  *  Listen to music.. really listen. Music is therapy. Old is best.

  *    Cuddle your dog. Far out, I will miss that.

  *  Talk to your friends. Pick up your phone. Are they doing okay?

   *   Travel if it’s your desire, don’t if it’s not possible.

    *  Work to live, don’t live to work.

     *  Seriously, do what makes your heart feel happy.

      *  Eat the cake. Have zero guilt.

      * Say no to things you really don’t want to do.

       *  Don’t feel pressured to do what other people might think is a fulfilling life.. you might want a mediocre life and that is so okay.

      * Tell your loved ones you love them every time you get the chance and love them with everything you have.

The core message of her post is to not worry about material things or dwell on looks. “I’m watching my body waste away right before my eyes with nothing I can do about it,” she wrote, “and all I wish for now is that I could have just one more Birthday or Christmas with my family, or just one more day with my partner and dog. Just one more.”