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That's Cool.

May we be one so that the world may be won.
Christian from the cradle to the grave
I believe in Hematology.
 

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Originally Posted By: CyberGuy

Good Point. We cannot fix the behavoir of others.

I saw a humourous sign that said

"I'm Always polite to People who disagree with me. After all, They have a right to their Stupid Opinions."

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Are you saying my opinions are stupid?

It is just a humourous sign above my computer my wife put up. Do not take everything so personally Lil Star

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It is just a humourous sign above my computer my wife put up. Do not take everything so personally Lil Star

Wise advise....

Democracy is a device that ensures we shall be governed no better than we deserve.

 

George Bernard Shaw

 

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Now Now ... it is always best to assume the best in people.

I have TRIED to ass u me the best in people only to find them pecking and pecking at me hoping that I will just give up and leave. Only, I find myself being banned. I have learned that when/if I come here I am to EXPECT to be pecked and pecked at. One day I will have enough holes from people I won't have to worry about walking outside.

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One day I will have enough holes from people I won't have to worry about walking outside.

Um...so what do you expect to be when that day arrives-

1] like a sponge- full of holes

2] transparent- nothing left of the body, just a floating head

3] donut-a hole in the middle, with arms, legs and a head

Just trying to get a visual here.....

Democracy is a device that ensures we shall be governed no better than we deserve.

 

George Bernard Shaw

 

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Nothing left, at least nothing left for pain upon pecking. The pecking is just clean sport to see who dies from loss of blood first.

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>>I have learned that when/if I come here I am to EXPECT to be pecked and pecked at.<<

...can’t speak for others but – I unabashedly admit that I enjoy your visits to these boards – and miss your input when you disappear for lengths of time. As for

those who peck and peck, well, we’ve all been imprinted – some naturally to be – peckers.

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Nothing left, at least nothing left for pain upon pecking. The pecking is just clean sport to see who dies from loss of blood first.

With time you learn to ignore those that do that. I have had my share of pecking at me. As long as it stays on the forum I learn how to deflect most of the pecking with some sharp wit of my own.

riverside.gif Riverside CA
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I see you are from Oregon. Where at in Oregon if you don't mind me asking.

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Nothing left, at least nothing left for pain upon pecking. The pecking is just clean sport to see who dies from loss of blood first.

Gee, Lil Star...That's pretty sad commentary.....

Since this is a virtual world,a world that the user creates [and granted, there's a bit of unknown interaction] I don't see how anyone can die physically by being here....and since this is a world of your creation, why don't you try to create something nice so that you will not have such a sad commentary? It is totally up to you....

Democracy is a device that ensures we shall be governed no better than we deserve.

 

George Bernard Shaw

 

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You know, I have a FANTASTIC life outside of the internet. I come here to try and find Christ as I have found churches to be so impersonal. We had a funeral several months back at the Sunnyside church and hardly anyone from the church showed up even though the guy went to church there almost every week. I posted something on here about it and nothing was said. No condolences; nothing. I come here to try and find good clean fellowship to only find the same type of 'clicks' as in the world of churches.

However I do come back; not very often as I DO have a life outside of this medium. I have met some really nice people here whom I enjoy speaking with. Others I could really care less. We have had problems in the past and continue to do so from what I see. I will not back down from my personal opinions and thoughts. I've tried to share and only got hunted. I've tried to find Jesus in posts only to be shot. I've tried walking on eggshells here only to be cut. Usually if I come here; I tend to only read until I feel convicted by my Lord to post; then to find that it's the same thing all over again. I guess I should go back to the reading and if the Lord compells me to post again, I will duck for cover and hope that the holes from all the pecking will not open back up. To those who are the friends I keep in touch with. I thank you.

I am only glad that my worldly life is very very good!

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You know, I have a FANTASTIC life outside of the internet.

I am glad to hear that...'cus you did have me worried when you describe your life here on C/A...ie being pecked upon all the time and ignored. I do worry about those people who keep making dents in a wall, and say that they are making headway....If something is not working for me, I usually try to give it up...That's my philosphy...works quite well...saves me from indentations to the head. LOL

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I come here to try and find Christ as I have found churches to be so impersonal. We had a funeral several months back at the Sunnyside church and hardly anyone from the church showed up even though the guy went to church there almost every week. I posted something on here about it and nothing was said. No condolences; nothing.

That is sad...People's lives get busy and sometimes they can't get time off work because work insists that you can only go to funerals of your relatives...not friends...I am glad that you were able to pay your last respects to him... flower

As for clubadventist, well, ...what can I say? someone posts it, and then no one is able to say anything respectable without sounding a bit lame or worse crude...and most are respectful enough not to sound crude...

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I come here to try and find good clean fellowship to only find the same type of 'clicks' as in the world of churches.

Well, sorry to hear that.... blowing

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However I do come back; not very often as I DO have a life outside of this medium. I have met some really nice people here whom I enjoy speaking with. Others I could really care less.

Yes, there are some really nice people here...I prefer to tease and joke around...sometimes that takes people aback..and they don't know what to make of it. Mostly, I am harmless....a bit irreverant, a bit self depreciating,...ornery as ever though... sometimes when I tease some people, in this medium, it can be taken wrong...that's why I use these Icons. :) It tends to give my mood as I write what I am thinking...and it clarifys what I am saying to the forum... It gets us all on the same page grouphug

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We have had problems in the past and continue to do so from what I see. I will not back down from my personal opinions and thoughts. I've tried to share and only got hunted.

I don't think one should ever back down, unless convinced to do so. Otherwise, a person like that would be wishy-washy. Changing opinions all the time...most confusing...[looking this way and that, whispering] Now, a good example of that is Redwood....But he calls it "tolerance"... [/whispering] angel1

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I've tried to find Jesus in posts only to be shot. I've tried walking on eggshells here only to be cut. Usually if I come here; I tend to only read until I feel convicted by my Lord to post; then to find that it's the same thing all over again. I guess I should go back to the reading and if the Lord compells me to post again, I will duck for cover and hope that the holes from all the pecking will not open back up.

Well, yes, you have to stand up for your opinions...So, don't back down...unless convinced to do so...and listen to other's opinions, because I find that some people have some really good arguements for thier opinions, even though it conflicts with mind..Ususally when that happens, I will ponder it and ask God about it...We kinda mull it around until there is an answer...I got a lot of mulling around to do... gahsurrender

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To those who are the friends I keep in touch with. I thank you.

I am only glad that my worldly life is very very good!

Well, good for you....I wish you well.

Democracy is a device that ensures we shall be governed no better than we deserve.

 

George Bernard Shaw

 

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Changing opinions all the time...most confusing...[looking this way and that, whispering] Now, a good example of that is Redwood....But he calls it "tolerance"... [/whispering]

Ok. I heard my name mentioned while I was in the ....

Let me clarify for the audience. I don't change my opinions that often. I just have tolerance for a lot of opinions and I have been known to defend opinions that I do not believe in. Thus ... tolerance.

The only problem is that it can be very confusing for those who want to figure out what "I" believe. Personally ... I don't really think it is all that important what "I" believe.

I try not to take myself "THAT" seriously.

And Hey ... we're good. ROFL

May we be one so that the world may be won.
Christian from the cradle to the grave
I believe in Hematology.
 

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You know, I have a FANTASTIC life outside of the internet. I come here to try and find Christ as I have found churches to be so impersonal. We had a funeral several months back at the Sunnyside church and hardly anyone from the church showed up even though the guy went to church there almost every week. I posted something on here about it and nothing was said. No condolences; nothing. I come here to try and find good clean fellowship to only find the same type of 'clicks' as in the world of churches.

However I do come back; not very often as I DO have a life outside of this medium. I have met some really nice people here whom I enjoy speaking with. Others I could really care less. We have had problems in the past and continue to do so from what I see. I will not back down from my personal opinions and thoughts. I've tried to share and only got hunted. I've tried to find Jesus in posts only to be shot. I've tried walking on eggshells here only to be cut. Usually if I come here; I tend to only read until I feel convicted by my Lord to post; then to find that it's the same thing all over again. I guess I should go back to the reading and if the Lord compells me to post again, I will duck for cover and hope that the holes from all the pecking will not open back up. To those who are the friends I keep in touch with. I thank you.

I am only glad that my worldly life is very very good!

Calm Down. You take offense way to easily. You are only giving amusement to your tormentors by flying off the handle like that. Ignore then and it will not be any fun anymore to tease you.

riverside.gif Riverside CA
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>>Where at in Oregon if you don't mind me asking.<<

About 20 klicks up I-5 from Roseburg, OR - in a small town - Sutherlin, OR.

No, I don't mind your asking. I'm not really the sort to be overly concerned with what others think of me, so...

I'm pretty much an open book.

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Bruce,

I am respectfully asking you to keep your judgment of my state of mind in my last post to yourself. I really was not in need of your suggestion to calm down. Of course everything some post is subject to diagnosis and to judgment . And if that doesn't work ridicule is a good virtual tool.

I hope you will honor my request to keep your judgment of my state of mind to yourself, please

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To Neil,

You can be spiritually killed though. Sometimes I think the killing and the final blows are so much easier to inflict because no one sees what they have done and they don't have to deal with it.

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Bruce,

I am respectfully asking you to keep your judgment of my state of mind in my last post to yourself. I really was not in need of your suggestion to calm down. Of course everything some post is subject to diagnosis and to judgment . And if that doesn't work ridicule is a good virtual tool.

I hope you will honor my request to keep your judgment of my state of mind to yourself, please

Fine. Suit yourself.

riverside.gif Riverside CA

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