I think of the early Christians after the crucifixion, Do you think for a minute that they all were loving and loveable? They had a common enemy, a common fear and needed each other to the extreme.
When we go through the real time of trouble we will have a common enemy, a common distress etc and we will do that those early christians did hang together and our nuances will seem trite compared to the mamoth experiences we are going through. We will need each other in our frailties and love will rule. I have no doubt.