I was raised SDA by my mother, and was an avid reader of EGW writings. When doubts concerning the doctrine of 3 divine "persons" were introduced in our congregation, I was determined to prove SDA doctrine was truth. I studied the issue of the Trinity doctrine for 4 years before concluding (reluctantly at the time) that there are only TWO divine beings - God our Father, and His Son. This change in my belief caused my exit from the SDA denomination some 20 years ago. I was forced out really. I was no longer allowed to teach my Sabbath School class, and was told to keep silent concerning "controversial" subjects. I understand the reason for the vitriol. To question the doctrine of a Trinity, IS to question Ellen White. Just as this thread has gone from comparing passages of Scripture, to debating what EGW believed and when she believed it.
My heart was healed - long ago - from the pain of that separation. I now understand that God our Father DID indeed give HIS only begotten son.