that's baloney... it's been happening for decades and decades and decades. It happened to my great grandfather. He was a physician, circuit rider (preacher for the Methodist-Episcopal church) in the Washington Territory, and a farmer. He married his first wife in 1875. He was verbally, emotionally, and physically abused by that awful woman for over 5 years. He filed for divorce in 1881, on the grounds of adultery and abuse. The judge granted the divorce. I have copies of the divorce papers. Some of the descriptions of what happened are horrendous. Thank God he finally married again in 1890 to my great grandmother. Their son, my grandfather, told us there was never a more compassionate, caring, individual than his father. He passed away suddenly in 1918 from a heatstroke at age 64.