I think people, including leadership, on both sides of [whatever the church controversy du jour might be] have spoken and acted like spoiled brats. I don't even bother to read 99% of churchy opinion pieces anymore, because nobody is interested in understanding the opposing views. They just want everyone to embrace *their* views. And each side acts as if they have the moral high ground.
What's kinda sad is that so many have become so driven, so involved, so wrapped up in being crusaders of their respective opinions, that if the problem were solved, the gasbags would all go into a deep depression because there'd be nothing left about which to fight and demean the opposition... because, you know, humbly spreading the Gospel doesn't provide the endorphin "fix" that they get from playing the victim...