Those questions, for me, are the easy part of all this. I wont bore anyone tonight with quotes and such; but why do we have to worry about that kind of "obedience?" Its "obedience" to some, and to others not. The thing here is, GOD is the only One who KNOWS the heart; and just how at-one-ment we are with Him. And we dont need to "explain" that to anyone. Gods the only One that gets to look there, although we religious fools and bigots keep trying to find a way around that. You dont NEED doctrine, the doctrine needs you. For example, ressurection. Would that doctrine, or the "mark of the beast" doctrine be the one you take to the bedside of a dying loved one? Know what I mean?
The only real purpose of a doctrine is to talk about some aspect of God's character, and when we get all un-hinged about "the law" and who is "not keeping it," we deny the "doctrine of Christ." (oops, I guess I couldn't resist a quote). This is not the full story on what Id like to say, but thats it for tnight.